Project Apologia

Project Apologia

A safe place to get gentle, lovingly crafted answers about Christianity and everyday situations.

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Faith & Salvation
Do Christians believe in free will to believe or are we predestined to be saved and unsaved

While saving faith is humanly impossible for spiritually dead sinners to produce on their own, non believers should not remain passive or wait idly for God to act. Instead, they are encouraged to read the Bible and cry out to God for faith.

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God's Character
Why does God bless some people more than others?

There are certain things about God that we cannot possibly wrap our mind around; this is one of those examples.

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Ethics & Christian Living
does bible treat women and men differently? why do we see verses like Husbands love your wife and wives respect your husband? shouldn't both people love and respect each other?

The Bible does treat men and women differently in regards to specific "callings" or "exhortations". However, there are certain things that are applicable to both men and women.

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Doubt & Hard Questions
Why is there suffering?

Suffering exists because Adam and Eve chose to disobey God in the Garden of Eden. God, in His desire for man to have free will, let them choose the path of rebellion, which lead to their experience of suffering.

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Bible & Scripture
Why does the Bible say that a man with many companions leads to ruin, but also there is wisdom in the counsel of many?

The context of these two different passages are different, as well as the type of companions, and the number of companions in the two scenarios. We'll dig more into how the context shapes the intent behind the reader's words.

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Doubt & Hard Questions
Hey I’m wondering about something. Why doesn’t God let people do certain things that won’t harm anyone? Like a man loving a man, I just don’t get why that’s morally wrong

God's design and original intent for intimate relations was for man and woman to enjoy, in the union of a marriage covenant, where each individual has decided to only share their body with the other, until death do them part.

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The Church & Community
Why do Christians go around trying to convert people? Why can't they just let people believe what they want to believe?

Christians believe that all of humankind have sinned against God. In the Bible, it describes that the wages of sin is death, and this death is not just a physical death, but a spiritual death that means eternal separation from God.

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Bible & Scripture
What's the evidence for the Bible based on sources outside of the Bible?

There's a combination of archaeological discoveries such as the Tel Dan Stele, the Dead Sea Scrolls, as well as some historians that were not associated with the Christian movement

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God's Character
How do we know that God is a fair judge?

Human judges can be swayed by a defendant's wealth, status, race, or connections. The Bible mentions that God is entirely blind to social standing or external prestige.

8 views00
Faith & Salvation
Do Christians believe in free will to believe or are we predestined to be saved and unsaved

While saving faith is humanly impossible for spiritually dead sinners to produce on their own, non believers should not remain passive or wait idly for God to act. Instead, they are encouraged to read the Bible and cry out to God for faith.

3 views00
God's Character
Why does God bless some people more than others?

There are certain things about God that we cannot possibly wrap our mind around; this is one of those examples.

3 views00
Ethics & Christian Living
does bible treat women and men differently? why do we see verses like Husbands love your wife and wives respect your husband? shouldn't both people love and respect each other?

The Bible does treat men and women differently in regards to specific "callings" or "exhortations". However, there are certain things that are applicable to both men and women.

2 views00
Doubt & Hard Questions
Why is there suffering?

Suffering exists because Adam and Eve chose to disobey God in the Garden of Eden. God, in His desire for man to have free will, let them choose the path of rebellion, which lead to their experience of suffering.

4 views00
Bible & Scripture
Why does the Bible say that a man with many companions leads to ruin, but also there is wisdom in the counsel of many?

The context of these two different passages are different, as well as the type of companions, and the number of companions in the two scenarios. We'll dig more into how the context shapes the intent behind the reader's words.

3 views00
Doubt & Hard Questions
Hey I’m wondering about something. Why doesn’t God let people do certain things that won’t harm anyone? Like a man loving a man, I just don’t get why that’s morally wrong

God's design and original intent for intimate relations was for man and woman to enjoy, in the union of a marriage covenant, where each individual has decided to only share their body with the other, until death do them part.

9 views10
The Church & Community
Why do Christians go around trying to convert people? Why can't they just let people believe what they want to believe?

Christians believe that all of humankind have sinned against God. In the Bible, it describes that the wages of sin is death, and this death is not just a physical death, but a spiritual death that means eternal separation from God.

11 views00
Bible & Scripture
What's the evidence for the Bible based on sources outside of the Bible?

There's a combination of archaeological discoveries such as the Tel Dan Stele, the Dead Sea Scrolls, as well as some historians that were not associated with the Christian movement

7 views20
God's Character
How do we know that God is a fair judge?

Human judges can be swayed by a defendant's wealth, status, race, or connections. The Bible mentions that God is entirely blind to social standing or external prestige.

8 views00